08 Jan

Why You Need to Understand a Player

Finding a partner is great but getting played on, brings pain. Understanding the thought process and life of a player is essential. It is important you do if you are planning on having a relationship with one.

In this video I share about how to understand where a player is and how to assist the player from getting unstuck.

Things you should do:

  1. Learn to understand the problems the player is going through.
  2. Be emphatic not sympathetic.
  3. Hold a conversation with the player in a tone that is not judgemental.
  4. Offer solutions to the player or help him/her get support from a professional.


“Do not play along with a player if you do not want to get played on. Do not give in and get hurt. Do not settle for less…learn to wait for the best!” – Kemi Sogunle

This material is an excerpt from my book, “Love, Sex, Lies and Reality.” Copyright © 2014 – Kemi Sogunle, All Rights Reserved. Get the book: here

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Kemi Sogunle is a certified professional coach (life and relationship expert), international speaker and multi-award-winning author. Kemi's mission in life is to support single men and women who are ready, to find who they are after a broken relationship or divorce, heal from their painful past experiences, learn to love themselves and develop positive and healthier relationship habits that will make their lives become better not bitter. She also supports married couples with conflict resolution, trust and intimacy issues. Books Published: • Love, Sex, Lies and Reality • Being Single: A State for the Fragile Heart • Beyond the Pain (A Return to Love)

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