Finding a partner is great but getting played on, brings pain. Understanding the thought process and life of a player is essential. It is important you do if you are planning on having a relationship with one.
In this video I share about how to understand where a player is and how to assist the player from getting unstuck.
Things you should do:
- Learn to understand the problems the player is going through.
- Be emphatic not sympathetic.
- Hold a conversation with the player in a tone that is not judgemental.
- Offer solutions to the player or help him/her get support from a professional.
“Do not play along with a player if you do not want to get played on. Do not give in and get hurt. Do not settle for less…learn to wait for the best!” – Kemi Sogunle
This material is an excerpt from my book, “Love, Sex, Lies and Reality.” Copyright © 2014 – Kemi Sogunle, All Rights Reserved. Get the book: here
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